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I had mentioned a few days ago how much I like to collect quotations. I just cut my 3×5 card deck of them to a Stephen Covey quote which is a favorite of mine.

I heard him say this on a video seminar, as he spoke about his metaphor of the Emotional Bank Account, and how important it is that we make continual deposits into our relationships with others:

“You can’t talk yourself out of a problem
that you behaved yourself into.”

I’m not sure who I’ve repeated this one to more over the years; my employees, my kids or (to be completely honest) myself!

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