Comments on: A Good Ruthlessness x3 http://talkingstory.org/2009/09/a-good-ruthlessness-x3/ Starting new conversations in the workplace! Mon, 26 Jul 2010 22:24:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Rosa Say http://talkingstory.org/2009/09/a-good-ruthlessness-x3/comment-page-1/#comment-4310 Rosa Say Mon, 31 May 2010 17:43:24 +0000 http://talkingstory.org/?p=2195#comment-4310 You're not alone Anne, we all fall prey to should-ing. I'm most grateful to Marcus Buckingham for sending the word to my vocabulary because it's made me aware of how I am imposing my should-ing on others, especially my family when all are now adults fully capable of setting their own expectations (and doing it very well :-) Your measuring is a direct hit on the energy consideration for me: I like it! You’re not alone Anne, we all fall prey to should-ing. I’m most grateful to Marcus Buckingham for sending the word to my vocabulary because it’s made me aware of how I am imposing my should-ing on others, especially my family when all are now adults fully capable of setting their own expectations (and doing it very well :-)

Your measuring is a direct hit on the energy consideration for me: I like it!

]]> By: Anne http://talkingstory.org/2009/09/a-good-ruthlessness-x3/comment-page-1/#comment-4303 Anne Mon, 31 May 2010 02:16:21 +0000 http://talkingstory.org/?p=2195#comment-4303 I've been "should-ing" all over myself (and my family) for forever...I'm trying to de-clutter that word out of my vocabulary and mind for a very long time... And speaking of de-cluttering, my favorite measuring of what may stay and what NEEDS to go is: "is this object (or thought) contributing to my life; is it life-giving or life-draining"? I’ve been “should-ing” all over myself (and my family) for forever…I’m trying to de-clutter that word out of my vocabulary and mind for a very long time… And speaking of de-cluttering, my favorite measuring of what may stay and what NEEDS to go is:
“is this object (or thought) contributing to my life; is it life-giving or life-draining”?

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